I am blessed to have the greatest child in the world. She’s so special, and I’ll never be able to find the words ( iambic or otherwise) to let her know how much I love her.
We used to do kind of “silly” things together when she was little, just dad and daughter. Each event was carefully disguised as fun, but designed to impart a lesson or two.
One of my favorite days was taking her to O’Hare airport and pretending we were going on a long trip. We chose a destination, (probably Japan to visit her grandmother), and I we acted out getting tickets, changing money, pretending we had arrived at the airport on the other end, having some Japanese food.
The lesson that day was that sometimes things that might seem kind of complicated – aren’t, but rather just take having the confidence to sort it out. It appears one side impact that I hadn’t counted on is my daughter has acquired a wanderlust gene, from “some parent.” Still a young woman with decades ahead of her to see the world, she has already explored Europe, N. Africa, the UK, some of Central and South America, all over the US, and Hong Kong. I made my first international trip when she was a toddler, 20 some years ago. I envy her travels already, and she has turned into a remarkable woman to even want to do it, let alone accomplish it.
Another day I remember was we went to a movie and were heading to lunch after that to her favorite “Sauce on the side” restaurant. The car died in the middle of a busy street on the way to the restaurant. She was quite upset. I (to my memory) calmly took care of what needed to be done, we let a tow truck come and take the car, and walked the last couple blocks to the restaurant, had lunch as if nothing had happened.
The lesson that day was supposed to be “no matter the obstacle, calm persistence can usually let you get on with your life.”
Not so sure I was successful with that one. Sometimes life just piles shit on us, no matter how much we try and avoid it.
Anyway. I’ve seen the world. I’ve loved and been loved. I’ve experienced wonderful things.
But nothing will ever top the pleasure I have had being a father to my daughter. A remarkable woman.